AbraCalabro wrote: ↑Thu Apr 04, 2024 2:29 pm
I've gone through this before and my collecting did change significantly. Previously I had the second largest player collection of my guy, so basically "super collector" territory. I was missing maybe 10-12 cards. Long story short, the prices on things became more and more untenable, people wanted way more than the card was worth, every one was trying to make record sales...I grew tired of it pretty quickly and decided to just stop.
I also did a lot of set building, but finding someone to trade with is next to impossible, it's tough even when you and others are building the same set, or sets. I found that I had a ton of cards and when I halted, I asked myself just what the hell I was going to do with all this crap. I decided to make preparations to sell off a bunch of stuff, sets, player PC cards, that bunch of stuff became an even bigger bunch of stuff and it snowballed from there.
Then, like you, I decided to expand the variety in my collection. Every time I went looking for singles from new sets, or releases that I didn't have in my collection, I was turned off. That outcome is still the case today. I have added very little and I want to emphasize that, I have been doing a lot more selling off than I have been doing any buying. I got back into it around 2010 and I find that these cards are simply not worth the money, it is/was a hobby for me and contending with gamblers, profiteers with no scruples, wealthy guys who lowball, or overcharge you and corporations doesn't make any sense, it's just not so fun anymore. At times I'd find myself wondering if I should spend the money on this Exquisite card, or that 90s parallel card and I end up deciding I'd be happier just keeping the money.
It wasn't worth it and it's not worth it. This was exacerbated by the fact that a lot of guys who were regulars around the forums I'd post on became sellouts in the worst way. Complete two faces and shameless, ass-kissing whores who sold out for self serving purposes, money, or attention, or all of the above.
I don't buy graded unless it's the only thing available and even then, I have to really want the card and the price has to be right. I've been grading some stuff as of recent, simply to protect the cards long term. Thought about getting into graded stuff as far as purchasing goes, but with Kunt's Card Care making its rounds, even as far as being unquestioned by PSA, (not that I'd ever collect PSA stuff, but that's another story). ...looked at graded stuff within the parameters of my card interests, also astronomically priced, no-go.
I became pretty focused and decided to stick only to a particular parallel from the mid 90s, that in addition to other low end parallels have made up the bulk of my buying and it's not very much. Overall, I have a lot less cards and my purchasing is extremely selective. I should also mention I got back into cards near the end of the final golden age for the hobby, around 2010. As such, my perspective will differ from yours...I found 2018 prices to be egregious as well...and it's the same cabal of douche bags making things go a certain way all for their own personal gain.
I could walk away from cards now and not bat an eyelash.
I would try one thing, or another, until you find the sweet spot for your interests. I like Electric Court Gold from 95/96 and I have basically all the ones I really want. I like them because they scan really well and the gold holofoil pops. They're spectacular in hand as well, photography is among the best, no one is hyping them up and they're not serial numbered. It's also PEAK 90s in my opinion, with the only "lowlight" being it was one year too early for the 96/97 draft class...but then again, no Kobe RC parallel, no big $$$, no problem.